pretty much a wash

fun
having random guys buy you drinks all night, is fun.
celebrating a best friend's (that you've known since your first job) 21st birthday, is fun.
getting random guys phone numbers that you're never going to call (even if he's really cute), is fun.
partying with a bachelor party full of people you've never met, is fun.
drunk dialing people, is fun.

not fun
seeing an ex-boyfriend's (that you hate) ex-girlfriend (whom you also hate), is not fun.
someone trying to take your bra off in the middle of country kitchen, is not fun.
being thisclose to a drunken catfight in the middle of country kitchen with a best friend (from high school), is not fun.
realizing what kind of person your friend (from high school) really is when she straight up denies that she hit you, even tho you can still feel it (even tho you're really drunk), is not fun.
driving home, is not fun.